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Brenda Carol Frazier

January 28, 1954 December 20, 2018
Brenda Carol Frazier
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Obituary for Brenda Carol Frazier

Brenda Carol Guthrie Frazier passed from this world and entered God’s Heavenly Shores on December 20th, 2018. Brenda was born on January 28, 1954 to Donald Augustus Guthrie Sr and Freda Louise Hicks Guthrie in Muskogee, Oklahoma. Brenda graduated from Muskogee High School. She married her one true love, Roger Dale Frazier, in 1972. Together they created three loving sons and enjoyed nearly 47 years of marriage.
Brenda’s greatest joy was being in the kitchen cooking. She loved to cook and feed her family, extended family and any friend they brought to the table. She loved to hear her guests say what a great meal they had and this happened anytime you sat at her table. She was creative, making many wedding cakes and flowers for weddings over the many years. She loved her family. Brenda and Roger’s boys blessed them with 6 grandchildren. Being Nana was her GREATEST reward.
Whether you called her wife, Mom, Aunt B, Nana, Sister, niece or friend you were blessed to have known her and have her care about you. Brenda would remember your favorite food and whip it up for you at the drop of a hat. She loved watching her kids and grandkids play sports. She could spend hours bragging on their accomplishments with a huge smile on her face. She truly embraced “Time spent with family was never wasted.”
Brenda was preceded in death by her parents and only niece, Katie Sudderth. She is survived by her husband, Roger of Midwest City; sons and daughter-in-law’s, Brian and Brenda Frazier of Choctaw, Jeff and Sheila Frazier of Midwest City, Steven and Sherry Frazier of Midwest City; siblings, Don and Kathie Guthrie of Choctaw and Nita and Chris Sudderth of Midwest City; grandchildren, Anthony and Allison Frazier, Austin Frazier, Clayton Frazier, Alyssa Frazier, Braden Frazier and Madison Frazier; great granddaughter, Addilyn Jo Frazier; aunts, Floretta Brock, Frances Hicks, Jean Land, Betty Wilkinson and Linda Sue Fredrick; nephews, Donald Augustus Guthrie III and wife Becca, Paul Guthrie and wife Traci, Shawn, Chris and Joe Frazier and host of cousins and friends.
The family invites you to celebrate her life at a memorial service on Saturday, January 5th, 2019 at 11 a.m. at Barnes Friederich Funeral Home in Midwest City, Oklahoma. In celebrating Brenda’s life there will be food served immediately after in the Community Room at the funeral home. Please come and celebrate Brenda for what she brought to your life.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests you make a donation to the American Diabetes Association in Brenda’s name at

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11:00 AM 1/5/2019 11:00:00 AM
Barnes Friederich Funeral Home Chapel

1820 S Douglas Blvd
Midwest City, OK 73130

Barnes Friederich Funeral Home Chapel
1820 S Douglas Blvd Midwest City 73130 OK
United States

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American Diabetes Association


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